HUUUMM..this is definately one i hope to get feedback on..
I'm in the middle with this one I think Women cheat more than men, then I think its 50/50.
I think WOMEN cheat more than men because most women cheat because they are not getting the attention they want or the love they once felt in the beginning of the relationship. So most of the time they will turn to a male friend or start going out with the ladies to enjoy herself a little and there she will meet somebody who is all over her. Maybe telling her how beautiful she looked in the outfit and so on and so on. Eventually it will escalate from there!!
However most women who cheat will leave their old relationship for the new one. Women tend to fall in deep when they find a man to make them feel the way they've always wanted OR they will eventually regret it and try to never see him again! But what I'm basically saying Women cheat for emotional reasons they wanna feel loved again, they wanna be held again and kissed and they wanna hear nice things and men cheat for different reasons.
Men cheat for the physical reasons, the excitement. For something different, something new.
Most of the time women think that because they got him that they don't need to keep themselves beautiful anymore or they feel they don't need to do the things they did in the beginning of the relationship! So what happens you ask??
WELL we all know men's eyes wonder around! It's up to the guy to control it. For those who DON'T. They will see the sexy lady walking down the street and she catches his eye if he is the type he will talk to her, exchange numbers, and meet up with her. Whatever happens happens. Now the thing with the men is that most of time they cheat and its just physical and exciting at the beginning then they are tired and thats it for them. But women tend to take it to a whole other level putting their emotions into it and wanting a realationship.
So basically both cheat for different reasons and both deal with it differently!
Take your pick!
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well the statement is true, 50/50 would be a perfect title for it cause good guys do get hurt but so do women and shit just gets turned around for most of em. good article
hi Mrz endy, well I wud like to say dat I hav mess'd around wit a lot of women who hav boyfriends, engaged, or even married, I disagree wit wat u sayd about women leaving their men, dat never happens. women will never leave their boyfriends, even if they feel he is mistreating her, all they want is to feel loved 4 a minute and then go back to their usual life.
I had to stop getting involved wit these type of women, cuz I'm da one dat always ends up hurt.
well mrz endy.. i have to agree with u, i also think women cheat more for the simple fact that man alwayz want to use the excuse of work and that they are tired, so women do cheat more but its because men just wont pay any attention to them, now im not saying that ladies if your man is tired one day, or one week has to much work to pay you a little attention thats the green light for you to pack your hoochie underware and go looking for another man, but if this is a frequently use excuse then just leave your man (dont cheat) and go get ur selfs something better
women. the difference is the art of concealing. women conceal and usually do a damned good job at it - men get too excited and tell the wrong people. cheating is a part of relationships and is strangely needed to spice up each other's lives - well for men. men use what tricks they've learned from women and apply it to their own relationships, most women just keep creeping and keep their original daily lives. if you're gonna cheat, don't be selfish!
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